Life as an Extreme Sport

the random other post

There weren’t many pictures taken today, but these two might be of interest:


The only 16 sided building in the US. It’s the Nott Memorial (I think), and completely tiled on the inside. It sits in the center of the Union University campus.


Lunar freaked out when we were getting into the hotel on the 3rd, and did this lovely damage to me. It’s moderately infected and hurts like hell whenever I stretch. Sigh. Thank ananda for recent tetanus shots. And yes, I’m very tired – pack a UHaul, drive 2500 of a 3500 mile trip, unpack the UHaul, run around like a headless chicken to get necessary items, unpack, and start school a day later. Plus, you try sitting down for 3500 miles, sleeping on hotel mattresses, and see how your back feels. Sigh. (At least it’s starting to feel better now.)

Albany, New York


We made a break for it and drove the rest of this nearly straight, leaving Erie a bit later than we wanted, but satiated with what have become addictive McDonald’s breakfasts. My poor arteries are probably solid by now. It was my own weeklong version of SuperSize me…

We also had fun today, and you should definitely look at these photos. We, for the first time, took a break to see a national monument – the first for the trip. We went to Niagara Falls!


A very tired all of us. I got some lovely photos, so take a looksee. I’ll definitely be going back to Niagra Falls, just to spend more time, see the Canadian side, see the Falls at dark – all that fun, touristy stuff.

Erie, Pennsylvania

This day did not start well, what with the trailer having its license plate stolen, then Lunar getting out of the SUV at the above-pictured rest stop (yes, really, that’s the inside of a rest stop in Indiana) and making a break for it. The day just got worse from there – I’m surprised we were speaking to one another by the end of it.

I was always getting up last on the trip, so Dad had gone outside and seen the problem with the trailer before I was even out of the shower. That, combined with a distinct lack of coffee and absolutely horrific and grossly expensive breakfast put him in a nasty mood, and he took it out on his driving, nearly getting into accidents several times (once nearly involving my mother and me). Then, to top things off, I needed to change the water for the cats, and had restrained Toledo – the one always trying to get out. Lunar had been cowering and never trying to get out, so I paid little attention, which was my mistake. Lunar leapt from the car and made a mad dash for it.

Now, in this area, in addition to having funky airport rest stops, the freeway is simply adjacent – there is no wall, no ditch, no nothing. Just a short stretch of grass, then speeding cars. Which is right where Lunar darted. Thankfully, he turned and ran under the trailer, by which time I had gotten my parents attention and Toledo back inside. Mom ended up capturing Lunar, grabbing him by the tail, which was a painful sight to see. He’d also managed to break a few nails, probably when trying to get away from Mom.

That was my stress of the day, probably the trip. It was hell, terror, and I couldn’t imagine watching him getting hit by a car. Thankfully, it didn’t happen. He got a lot of cuddling later that night, when he felt like being near me.

Anyhow, this was the roughest day, the day before finishing the trip, which I think might be rather normal. And, there are some inside jokes in this particular set of pictures,… hope you enjoy them, mystery person they’re for. ๐Ÿ˜‰

tears still fall

I caught myself singing these modified lyrics to the song “Daniel” this morning, before I realized the date.

Jessica is travelling tonight on a plane
I can see the red tail lights heading for Spain
Oh and I can see Jessica waving goodbye
God it looks like Jessica, must be the clouds in my eyes

They say Spain is pretty though I’ve never been
Well Jessica says it’s the best place that she’s ever seen
Oh and she should know, she’s been there enough
Lord I miss Jessica, oh I miss her so much

Jessica my sister you are older than me
Do you still feel the pain of the scars that won’t heal
Your eyes have died but you see more than I
Jessica you’re a star in the face of the sky

Jessica is travelling tonight on a plane
I can see the red tail lights heading for Spain
Oh and I can see Jessica waving goodbye
God it looks like Jessica, must be the clouds in my eyes
Oh God it looks like Jessica, must be the clouds in my eyes

I still miss you, beautiful, every day. I know you would be so, so proud of me. And you’d laugh at me, at all of us, still soaking our pillows two years later. My grieving should have stopped when I finished reading you the bardo – which I did the moment I heard that almost literal chime in my head, at that right verse of the bardo… guess I’m not a bad Buddhist for nothing.

without you, the stars roar the breeze warms, the girl smiles, the cloud moves. Without you, the tides change, the boys run, the oceans crash. The crowds roar, the days soar, the babies cry, without you.