My story isn’t like yours, and yet there’s some similar things. And I have those same issues of trying to embrace, trying to distance, trying it all. I haven’t found my comfy spot yet. I don’t know if I ever will. And even without a spouse in the field, it’s weirdly defining for me still. Less than a decade, though, I suppose.
I guess I’m just trying to say I’m with you and also trying to learn and catalogue as you are. Much luck, friend.
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