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	<title>Comments on: The Things You Need to Do Alone, In Santa Fe</title>
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	<description>&#34;the hardest thing in this world is to live in it&#34;</description>
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		<title>By: Stacy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2005 08:27:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do agree that the way the movie was edited did not explain Benny&#039;s character that well. And yes, Taye Diggs was yummy. 

And I too have been in love with the music for a long time. Ever since the first time I saw it on stage in 1999. I&#039;ve seen it 2 times since then (both times it&#039;s come back to seattle). 

Oh, and because I saw it alone I didn&#039;t have to feel any which way about all the crying I did during the 2nd half!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do agree that the way the movie was edited did not explain Benny&#8217;s character that well. And yes, Taye Diggs was yummy. </p>
<p>And I too have been in love with the music for a long time. Ever since the first time I saw it on stage in 1999. I&#8217;ve seen it 2 times since then (both times it&#8217;s come back to seattle). </p>
<p>Oh, and because I saw it alone I didn&#8217;t have to feel any which way about all the crying I did during the 2nd half!</p>
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		<title>By: holy fool</title>
		<link>http://www.kellyhills.com/blog/?p=142&#038;cpage=1#comment-1463</link>
		<dc:creator>holy fool</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2005 01:20:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p align = &quot;right&quot;&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;i&gt;You, I thought I knew you
You, I cannot judge
You, I thought you knew me,
This one laughing quietly underneath my breath&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

Wow, I have no idea why this entry made you think of such a beautiful song, but thank you for the recommendation; it&#039;s lovely, aching and just...yeah. You&#039;re right - no regret.

I&#039;m slowly learning that I like to see movies alone. It&#039;s hard, because I&#039;ve almost always gone with a person, to have that post-movie redux and dialogue and sort of mutual deciding on opinion. I&#039;ll probably always remember &lt;i&gt;Girlfight&lt;/i&gt;, not for the movie itself, but for being the first movie I can remember ever seeing alone. And you&#039;re right, there&#039;s a sort of possession of memory and meaning that becomes almost a little precious gem of self - in a world so rare to find a space where it is only your own thoughts and opinions, you get an entire universe to shape an opinion of.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align = "right"><small><i>You, I thought I knew you<br />
You, I cannot judge<br />
You, I thought you knew me,<br />
This one laughing quietly underneath my breath</i></small></p>
<p>Wow, I have no idea why this entry made you think of such a beautiful song, but thank you for the recommendation; it&#8217;s lovely, aching and just&#8230;yeah. You&#8217;re right &#8211; no regret.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m slowly learning that I like to see movies alone. It&#8217;s hard, because I&#8217;ve almost always gone with a person, to have that post-movie redux and dialogue and sort of mutual deciding on opinion. I&#8217;ll probably always remember <i>Girlfight</i>, not for the movie itself, but for being the first movie I can remember ever seeing alone. And you&#8217;re right, there&#8217;s a sort of possession of memory and meaning that becomes almost a little precious gem of self &#8211; in a world so rare to find a space where it is only your own thoughts and opinions, you get an entire universe to shape an opinion of.</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
		<link>http://www.kellyhills.com/blog/?p=142&#038;cpage=1#comment-1462</link>
		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 21:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I tend to think that seeing movies alone is one of the more cathartic experiences in life. Not just because of cartharsis, but because there is never the obligatory post-movie redux that ensues in the company of another. In the aloneness, the meaning of the experience is purely ours to possess. And in that possession, the lucidity of the truth is increased.

Download, rob or cheat someone out of the song, &quot;Nightswimming,&quot; by REM. You won&#039;t regret it. For some reason this entry made me think of it.

&quot;Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show.&quot; --Charles Dickens, David Copperfield.
:-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tend to think that seeing movies alone is one of the more cathartic experiences in life. Not just because of cartharsis, but because there is never the obligatory post-movie redux that ensues in the company of another. In the aloneness, the meaning of the experience is purely ours to possess. And in that possession, the lucidity of the truth is increased.</p>
<p>Download, rob or cheat someone out of the song, &#8220;Nightswimming,&#8221; by REM. You won&#8217;t regret it. For some reason this entry made me think of it.</p>
<p>&#8220;Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show.&#8221; &#8211;Charles Dickens, David Copperfield.<br />
 <img src='http://www.kellyhills.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: holy fool</title>
		<link>http://www.kellyhills.com/blog/?p=142&#038;cpage=1#comment-1461</link>
		<dc:creator>holy fool</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 21:03:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rent has always been a favourite of mine - as cheesy as the soundtrack can be, in its stereotypical musical flourishes and swells, I really love it. I wanted to see it alone, to either treasure the memory or mourn its awfulness alone - I&#039;m glad it&#039;s a treasure and not a bad thing! (Although I agree with one friend, who did complain that Benny lost his &quot;redemption&quot; in the editing they did for the movie. Still, Taye Diggs as Benny... day-um!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rent has always been a favourite of mine &#8211; as cheesy as the soundtrack can be, in its stereotypical musical flourishes and swells, I really love it. I wanted to see it alone, to either treasure the memory or mourn its awfulness alone &#8211; I&#8217;m glad it&#8217;s a treasure and not a bad thing! (Although I agree with one friend, who did complain that Benny lost his &#8220;redemption&#8221; in the editing they did for the movie. Still, Taye Diggs as Benny&#8230; day-um!)</p>
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		<title>By: Stacy</title>
		<link>http://www.kellyhills.com/blog/?p=142&#038;cpage=1#comment-1460</link>
		<dc:creator>Stacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 20:28:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*hugs* I saw it on Monday night by myself as well. Much needed and I&#039;m really glad I saw it solo although I think I&#039;ll have to see it again w/ others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*hugs* I saw it on Monday night by myself as well. Much needed and I&#8217;m really glad I saw it solo although I think I&#8217;ll have to see it again w/ others.</p>
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